Stonn

Stonn was a male Vulcan who lived during the 23rd century. He became involved with the Vulcan female T'Pring - who was betrothed to Spock, son of Sarek.

While Spock was away from Vulcan, T'Pring began a relationship with Stonn. (TOS novel Vulcan's Glory).

When Spock experienced pon farr, he returned to Vulcan to take T'Pring as his wife. T'Pring forced Spock to fight James T. Kirk for her hand in marriage. After McCoy used tri-ox to make it appear as though Spock had killed Kirk, Spock found that his pon farr had ceased. He asked T'Pring to explain why she inisted on having Spock fight Kirk. T'Pring explained that if Spock wanted the fight then Spock would probably not want her and let her stay with Stonn. If Kirk won, then he would not have wanted T'Pring and would've been released to stay with Stonn. And even if Spock married T'Pring, he would be gone and she would still be free to stay with Stonn. Spock decided to allow Stonn to take T'Pring as his wife, telling him that having her would not be the same as wanting her. (TOS episode Amok time).