Elsa

Elsa was the wife of a Starfleet officer and the mother of Gretchen and Annie. In 2316 she was informed by Starfleet admirals and Sinek that her husband was dead.

By 2329, Elsa had remarried, to a Starfleet officer named Kurt. That year, she threw a party to celebrate his promotion to admiral. During the party, she objected to the dress Gretchen had chosen to wear. (SS VOY (Uninvited Admirals))